Wednesday, April 9, 2008

The First Smiles and Thirty Things that Change!



Cooper started smiling a few days ago! There is nothing as sweet or as heartwarming as getting one of these toothless grins. It makes the worst day an absolute joy.
I received this article at BabyCenter.com....I just had to share them because they are so true and sweet. Even though I have only had my little Cooper for 7 weeks now so many of them have proven to be right on the money. You always hear that your life will never be the same, and you know that ,sort of, but you have no idea to what extent it will be until you have one.


What changes when you have a baby? A better question may be: What doesn't change? Here, writer and mom Rebecca Woolf lists her most notable post-baby observations. Then scroll down to read our favorite comments from readers about how their babies changed their lives.


1. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.

2. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid.

3. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.

4. You respect your body ... finally.

5. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.

6. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.

7. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.

8. You lose touch with the people in your life whom you should have banished years ago.

9. Your heart breaks much more easily.

10. You think of someone else 234,836,178,976 times a day.

11. Every day is a surprise.

12. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive. In fact, they please you. (Hooray for poop!)

13. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.

14. You become a morning person.

15. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power.


And from our readers...


1. "You discover how much there is to say about one tooth." — Ashley's mom

2. "You finally realize that true joy doesn't come from material wealth." — Anonymous

3. "You now know where the sun comes from." — Charlotte

4. "You'd rather buy a plastic tricycle than those shoes that you've been dying to have." — Sophie's mom

5. "You realize that although sticky, lollipops have magical powers." — Roxanne

6. "You don't mind going to bed at 9 p.m. on Friday night." — Kellye

7. "Silence? What's that?" — Anonymous

8. "You realize that the 15 pounds you can't seem to get rid of are totally worth having." — Brenda

9. "You discover an inner strength you never thought you had." — Ronin and Brookie's mom

10. "You no longer rely on a clock — your baby now sets your schedule." — Thomas' mom

11. "You give parents with a screaming child an 'I-know-the-feeling' look instead of a 'Can't-they-shut-him-up?' one." — Jaidyn's mom

12. "Your dog — who used to be your 'baby' — becomes just a dog." — Kara

13. "You take the time for one more hug and kiss even if it means you'll be late." — Tracey

14. "You learn that taking a shower is a luxury." — Jayden's mom

15. "You realize that you can love a complete stranger." — Dezarae's mom

Tuesday, April 1, 2008

5 Weeks Old and Growing





My baby is getting so big, so fast! I can't believe he has been mine for 6 weeks already! We went for his one month check-up last week and he is up to 8 pounds, 9 oz.....Breast Milk....It does a body good! I have a problem though, he doesn't want me to put him down for anything....Not to make myself coffee in the morning (and believe me I need my coffee....or go to the bathroom!). Everyone says that I have spoiled him already, but I keep telling myself that I just better enjoy this time because before I know it he will be walking and totally not interested in just spending time with mommy. He starting smiling two days ago on March 30th...My husband got so excited that I thought he would pee on himself....Because Cooper was smiling at him...He was soooo tickled. He is such a great daddy...You see a whole different side of your husband once you bring a child into the picture...It is just so sweet to watch them together. That is why I just don't understand how people have children together and then get divorced and can be so nasty to each other. How can you go through this experience together and then have so much hate in your heart for that person that was once your everything? This morning Cooper was sleeping and Jason was just holding him at his side and I came in and he was like "He's just so awesome!" That is just the sweetest thing you can ever hear!